Imagine your street loses power just as everyone is coming home. The lift stops, the heating goes off and you have one phone with a decent charge. Your neighbour can offer a warm room, but the person who usually checks in on your father is still at work. What does each person need to know in the next ten minutes?
A household emergency plan puts those answers on one page. Write it around the people who will use it, where they spend the day and what they can do safely. The work is mostly making decisions and agreeing who can help. A useful first draft can come together over dinner.
1. Start with the people and places you need to reach
List everyone who regularly sleeps at your address, including children who split their time between homes. Add the people outside it who rely on you for practical help, such as a parent you visit each evening or a neighbour whose shopping you collect. Ask them how they want to be contacted if something changes. Agree what they can expect from you and who can step in if you are unavailable.
Sketch an ordinary weekday. One child is at school, another is at football and you are at work across town. Check who is allowed to collect each child and how the school tells parents when arrangements change. A grandparent who can drive on Tuesdays but works on Thursdays makes a good named option for certain days. Give a second authorised adult the details they would need.
- Put the address first. Write the full address and postcode in large type. Add an access instruction if the building is difficult to find, such as which entrance to use.
- Choose an out-of-area contact. Ask someone everyone can reach if your household is separated. Agree what they should pass on and what to do if they hear from only one person.
- Check how the plan works for each person. Ask about hearing, sight, language, mobility and medical needs. Work with the person concerned on the actions they can use.
- Make two usable copies. Give each adult a small card with essential numbers and keep the household copy where people can find it. Save a copy that can be read offline.
A shared note is useful while everyone has a signal and a working account. Paper matters when a phone is flat or somebody has to call from someone else’s device. Limit what you carry or display to what is needed for the situation. Keep detailed medical information and other private records somewhere secure and tell the appropriate person how to reach them.
2. Decide when to stay, when to leave and where to meet
Start with a near meeting point for an incident at home. Pick somewhere outside the building and safely away from the entrance, such as an agreed landmark on the other side of the street. Then pick a separate place you can use when the area around home is inaccessible. A friend’s house or a familiar public building can work if there is a way to get there and you know when it opens. Write down the address instead of relying on a name that might identify several places.
Talk through the routes. A shortcut across low ground may be unusable in heavy rain. A lift might be out of service in a power cut. A station may close at night. Choose a realistic alternative and test it on foot if you can. Ask the building manager about fire procedures and escape routes if you live or work in a managed building. Follow the instructions for your building and situation, and any direction from emergency services.
Agree what a check-in looks like. “I’m safe at Priya’s, staying here until 9 pm, call Sam if I lose signal” is more useful than “all fine”. A clear place and next check-in time give the other person something to act on. Let people know when the meeting point is no longer in use so nobody sets off looking for someone who has already gone elsewhere.
3. Write the first actions for disruptions you might face
Use local information before deciding what belongs on the sheet. Find your flood warning service, electricity network operator and building emergency contact. Register for local warnings where the service is available. The UK Emergency Alerts service sends instructions to compatible devices in the area of a life-threatening incident. Keep another way to find updates, such as local radio or an official council page saved in your bookmarks.
- Power cut. Put the torch and spare batteries where they are easy to reach. Record the outage number for your area. In Great Britain, 105 connects you to the local electricity network operator. Add an individual backup plan for any powered care equipment.
- Water supply interruption. Write down your water supplier’s contact and where bottled water is kept. Put any extra needs for feeding, pets and care on the same page so nobody has to remember them under pressure.
- Local flooding. Find out where to get a warning and what safe route leads away from the risk. Keep the insurance number and a way to reach the landlord or property manager. Follow official advice on leaving and avoid floodwater.
- A night away. Ask one person in advance whether you could stay. Check access, sleeping space, medicines and whether there is room for pets. Put a second option on the sheet in case the first is affected too.
Keep the instructions concrete enough to read in a hurry. “Torch in the hall cupboard, spare batteries in the drawer underneath” makes a better handover than “lighting kit stored”. Where an action needs training or professional instructions, write who to call and where to find the relevant instructions. For someone relying on electrical care equipment or extra help with utilities, discuss arrangements with the relevant care team and check eligibility for a Priority Services Register.
4. Give every job an owner and a backup
Share the jobs by availability. If one adult handles school messages and the other handles the utility calls, each needs the basic information to cover the other. Children can learn who to call and where to go in age-appropriate steps. Practise what to say in a pretend call using a switched-off phone. Make the route to a safe adult simple enough for them to remember without the page.
Test the first draft with one small exercise. Ask the person least familiar with the plan to find the torch, point to the agreed meeting place on a map and say what they would do if you were out of reach. Run through the answer to a missed school pick-up and a neighbour who needs help. The object is to spot gaps while there is time to fix them. If a number is missing or the meeting point is vague, change that line while everyone is there.
Put a review date next to the title and make updating the plan part of an ordinary routine, such as the start of a school term. Check it sooner when someone moves, changes school, starts a new medication or takes on a different caring role. Record who has a copy so the old one can be replaced. Before you finish, read the whole sheet aloud once. If people know whom to call, what to do first and where to go when it’s safe, you have a plan your household can put to work.
ORIGINAL RESEARCH CHECKED / 9 NOVEMBER 2026
Official sources
- UK Government: Be Ready household checklist ↗
- UK Government: How Emergency Alerts work ↗
- Environment Agency: Check the long-term flood risk for an area in England ↗
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